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Emily Tompkins Lewis's avatar

I couldn't love this more. I am navigating a similar journey with two 16 year old cats who are my constant companions. Their changes, illnesses, indignities, and body fluids everywhere all the time have also been parallel to my parents' journey. Caring for the four of them the past 5 years has been difficult and the anticipatory grief is trying. The love in Ruby's face as she stares back at you is so special. I believe you were both fortunate to find each other and I am wishing you both peace.

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Rachel Leibrock's avatar

Oh, my heart goes out to you. What a wonderful tribute to your dearest Ruby. I will take that image of her in front of the window, gazing at her final sunrise, into the days ahead.

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Jennifer's avatar

This brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful way to honor Ruby and her life. Condolences to you and your family.

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Kelly Allen's avatar

Aw, jeez, Jenn. This is crushing. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby kitty. She sounds like a great spirit.

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Katie's avatar

Goosebumps and chills at the last paragraph. I wish you comfort and peace in your healing journey. Losing the furry family members is a pain like no other

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Rebecca Chace's avatar

Thank you, Jen. I just wrote you another note. This was beautiful and I am very sorry about Ruby. But what love between you, and I also love that sweet photo. Thank you for sharing her, and yourself with us.

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Melissa Schwartz's avatar

I’m so sorry for your loss. She knew she was deeply loved.

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Kerry Donahue's avatar

Since Jon Stewart openly wept on his show for his dog, I've been thinking of that saying, pets give us our happiest days and then one of our worst. Wishing you comfort as you grieve.

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Rachel R Rozell's avatar

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dog Milo last January and I still miss him. Your article was elegant and beautiful as always. I hope you feel healing soon.

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Equilibrist's avatar

I’m so terribly sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing her story with us—your vivid portrait of her makes me feel as though I know (knew) her.

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KPnyc's avatar

I’m so, so sorry. Watching your first baby grow old and die is brutal. Been there. <3

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Tanya's avatar

What a heartbreak. You did Ruby proud with this tribute.

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Hooligan's avatar

My cat, Morris did the same thing on his last day as my living fur potato. He was a sun worshipper, too. I still occasionally feel him jump on the bed. Always a tough time for fur parents-my heart goes out to you and your family. 💐🪽

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Natasha Levinger's avatar

My first adult cats buoyed me through my pain of young adulthood and were my best comfort for 18 years. I feel your pain. It’s such an honor to spend any of our time with our familiars. Sending you so much love.

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